Yesterday, I was shocked and deeply saddened by the news from Tumbler Ridge. When tragedies like this happen, they affect us all, near and far. Let us hold in prayer the victims and their families. It is impossible to imagine the depth of pain that comes from losing a loved one—especially a child—to violence born of hatred or despair. Words may not bring comfort, yet we can surround those who mourn with love, prayer, and the assurance that they are not going through this alone. Together, we find strength to work for a world that is safer, kinder, and more loving for our children and all who come after us.
Under the weight of sorrow and disbelief, a question may stir within us. “How could this have happened? ” I find it hard even to ask what could cause a person to commit such an extreme act of violence against innocent people and families. We may never fully understand how someone’s sense of self and humanity can become so wounded.
There may be elements of biology, upbringing, personal struggle, or a painful mixture of all these, but no explanation can ever justify such violence. Each of us is given both the will and the moral capacity to choose what is good and to turn away from what is evil. In times like these, we are reminded of the sacred responsibility we share to build communities rooted in compassion, justice, and peace.
When there is a wound, it must be tended. It needs to be seen, heard, and mourned; prayed over and, by God’s grace, healed and restored. God is present with all His wounded children, and we are called to be present too while listening, grieving, holding, and praying together, so that pain does not go unseen or unhealed, and does not lead to further pain or damage.
Merciful God, comfort those who mourn and heal all who are wounded in body or spirit. Give peace to the grieving, courage to the fearful, and hope to the brokenhearted. In Your love, restore us and make us instruments of Your peace. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Fr. James