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Recently, I came across a video clip on YouTube from the movie “The Weather Man”. In it, the protagonist is struggling with his life, and his father says to him:

“To get anything of value, you have to sacrifice. Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. Easy doesn’t enter into grown-up life.”

It struck me deeply and led me to reflect on my own life. Indeed, it is true that the most valuable and cherished things I have received did not come easily. In pursuing those goals, there were moments when I doubted whether I could reach them, felt tempted to give up, or even regretted choosing that path.

At times, we look at people who have “arrived” and assume they are happy, content, and comfortable without hardship. Yet when we ask how they got there, they often share stories of struggle—of resistance, failure, and temptation. On the other hand, we sometimes see people who gain fortune through a mere luck, without effort, only to lose themselves and drift away from an authentic life because of what they once thought was a blessing. Perhaps, then, gaining something truly valuable has less to do with how much we accomplish, and more to do with how faithfully and persistently we pursue it.

And this journey is never solitary. On one end, the pursuit of what is valuable requires persistence, resilience, and single-mindedness; on the other, it is completed through humility, acceptance, and trust in others.

As we celebrate Pentecost this coming Sunday, we are reminded that the Spirit guides us in this pursuit. There are times when the Spirit holds us steady andfirm as we walk a difficult path, and other times when the Spirit breaks us open so that we may listen to and reach out to others with humility. And as we continue on this path, seeking what is valuable for ourselves and for others, we may discover that we ourselves are being formed into a valuable gift for the world.

What are you pursuing right now? What is God inviting you to grow into?

Fr. James